Objective Standards Of Wisdom

If you were strong mentally to where you could understand that you were not perfect, but you still have a purpose and a function, and you have all the power and ability in the world to become everything that you have the power to be, you would not care what anyone else says. You wouldn't be bothered by the subjective standards of other people, right? Why are we so concerned trying to measure up to the subjective standards of imperfect people? I'm not going by the subjective standard, but if someone comes in and shows me the objective standard, then I'll measure up. If it's wisdom, then it is a part of that objective standard that judges all of us. It doesn't matter who's saying it. What matters is the truth. What matters is what wisdom is saying to us.