The pain of the past is a destroyer of futures because we become so occupied with it that we have little energy, or focus, for achieving the things we want. We end up holding ourselves back, and it takes only a little resistance from life to keep us where we are.

We’re also in an age of therapy where we believe the best way to get over our past is to actually focus on it. We want to get to the root of things and try to answer questions like why and how?

I’m not saying we should avoid such therapy, nor am I suggesting that a qualified therapist or counselor would ever want to see you held back by your past. It’s more what we do to ourselves.

I believe that the best way to get over your past is to create a future that looks like “payback” for the past. We should build the life we would have if nothing wrong had ever happened to us.

That’s the subject of this week’s 5-message series The Best Way to Get Over Your Past from my Life Domination Online Coaching Group. Watch Episode 1 now:

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C. J. Ortiz
C. J. Ortiz

My mission is to help equip people to maximize their resources for a purpose greater than themselves. That's what my own mentors and teachers have done for me, and I'm paying it forward. Life can be merciless, and the world can be a messed up place, so what's needed is a stronger people that can both endure and overcome in life. My motto is, "In whatever you do, don't suck! Metal up!"

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